Abby writes "I don't know much about my donor father. I was born in August, 1995, so I was conceived sometime around the end of 1994. The process was anonymous, but my parents picked someone who looked like my dad, so I'm assuming he has dark hair, pale or olive skin, and isn't very tall. (Is nearsightedness hereditary?) My mom told me last year that my younger sister and I came from donor fathers. Since then I've thought a lot about what my donor father might be like. I want to find him, if only just to know who he is."